They promise to make you more productive, but they’re actually holding you back. Here’s how to demote them.

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The garden fork

I was going to visit my family overseas in a global pandemic. I had to schedule three different Covid tests in a 10-day period in two countries. I had to fill out a bunch of paperwork designed by government bureaucrats who had apparently never seen a website…

Just because it’s not good at steering or navigating doesn’t mean you need to leave it by the side of the road.

Lately I’ve noticed my women clients saying things like “I know that’s just my ego talking” or “I know I shouldn’t care about the compliment, because that’s just…

Everything we value in the lives we currently have rests in part on past bad decisions.

Is there anyone who doesn’t have a time or phase of their lives they regret? Something that they can’t quite forgive themselves for?

For me and many women I know, it’s stuff from our…

Jane Elliott PhD

Coach | Academic | Writer. There will be swearing.

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